We never seem to be open at the same moment, and we blame everything but the cause.

What is said in this reel

There is something that happens between two people who actually love each other. They can never seem to be open at the same moment. One reaches, the other goes quiet. The moment the quiet one turns toward, the first one is already pulled back. You blamed timing, you blamed him, you blamed yourself. None of those were the cause. The cause is older than both of you. Some part of you, the part that spend a lifetime learning to be a separate self knows real love would dissolve it so it conspires. Both of you are doing it neither of you knows. This is not a failure of love. This is the ego protecting itself from love. When you finally fall, the version of you that needed him to want you will not survive it. That is what love asks for. That is why most people never get there.